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THIS Gets Him Addicted to You Forever (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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Rebecca Muñoz (3 hours ago)
Thank you for your words. I believe in love, but after bad choice after bad choice, I'm somewhat guarded. Your videos are addicting, because they are "in your face" style... I'm sending you tons of blessings and a huge hug. There's a really wonderful man I started seeing this past week. Your words are helping me a bunch... Thank you
Sandra Udenze (21 hours ago)
I could just kiss this guy, this is my whole life story. I have been called too stubborn and stiff due to my standards.
naowarat marshall (1 day ago)
Standards.... good looking, not too smart, house works, earn money plus provide wealth 😂😬, lots of money in banks for shopping, and love meeeeeee a lot. Know each 1 year before or more ...... otherwise we have Mr. Vibe ... sorry gentlemen. Mr. Vibe requires no headache 🤙🏿🤙🏿😎
Ramata (1 day ago)
Why aren't you on audible
Marianna Santinon (2 days ago)
Your videos are so interesting and relatable! Very well thought out 😉
Sav Holly (2 days ago)
ADVISE PLEASE! - Hi! I’m the “too sweet girl” that went to his place even though I didn’t feel entirely comfortable (no sex) but I would like him to step his game up, as I find him sweet and attractive. What can I do to fix this? Since, I haven’t shown enough saltiness in our first dates.
Rotaru Valentin (3 days ago)
I love your videos but all those websites you advertise they all seem like the old fashion scam websites...I wouldn't trust my credit card on such a website, sorry.
Unexpected Rendezvous (3 days ago)
I've been in a 'tug of war' situation with one of my tinder matches. We haven't exchange our phone numbers. He's been MIA without any reason for 2 times and every time he done it, I unmatched him. But when I swiped right him, we matched. What is he currently thinking of me?
The Sibling Duet (3 days ago)
can we have one of these guys for dudes
Glydel Camargo (4 days ago)
but what if I’m ready and open to confront him of things that I seem you know off? e.g suddenly not talking to me or what’s wrong *we’re in a LDR with my bf btw*
Pedro Alb (5 days ago)
interesting points ,if anyone else is searching for how to keep your man in love with you try Covert attractor audit ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my cousin got amazing results with it.
Mia Kim (8 days ago)
Thank you for pointing out where I am lacking, because of that I just subscribed
Vanessa Guevara (10 days ago)
lmao. How did I stumble on this. it's great.
Araceli L (10 days ago)
This works to filter out the narcissist and sociopath too. They wont like hearing "standards" so its a good thing!
F V (10 days ago)
As a guy, I'd rather a girl be honest with me and just tell me she's not ready to move so fast without the future prognostication so that I'm not being strung along. This idea that we should fabricate attraction through some hackneyed narrative is a turn off. It's like PUA, but for girls.
Ritu Rao (11 days ago)
You are my god in the world of relationship mentor. You are the best
Naomi Elizabeth de Wal (11 days ago)
I’m the second sweet girl & the bliss point girl.
Oliver Queen (12 days ago)
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Lucy Taylor (12 days ago)
okay, you are a mfckn genious😅
Joanna Kozak (12 days ago)
This so fuckin amazing and so true 👌 advice I ever heard!!!
DOPE TIZZLE (13 days ago)
This is very informative
Chana (13 days ago)
Alice Saephan (13 days ago)
Love your video!😁
“Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood."
Mariana Ortiz (14 days ago)
Honestly I don't see anything wrong having sex on the first date. If you thought I was easy bitch you were easy too.
Mariana Ortiz (14 days ago)
You got the wrong bitch, is my new one lol
Tim Hanselbach (15 days ago)
Sex is the only real thing. Two adults who find each other attractive can gain such an immense joy without money, consequences or technology. Its the best thing in the world and keeps us sane, relaxed and balanced, while we worry and focus on the real problems: Saving lifes, becoming a doctor, get rich and donate to starving children etc. --> The real problems, instead of slut shaming and gossiping like teenagers. Of course you have to learn how to do it properly and: have the social skills and human knowledge to identify perfect partners for it. You can play with your smartphones and videogames and watch porn until you rubbed yourself into oblivion.... But *all* I need is another human being. Another mind, another body, and we will be more entertained, relaxed and happy then with any artificial thrill money could buy us.
Hope sweeden (16 days ago)
i just tuned in to see your face and hands and that voicee!!!
TomOfAllTrades91 (19 days ago)
Why would anyone want to be addicted to another person? How exactly is that healthy...?
Scorpio Reverie (19 days ago)
Listening to his voice just melts me like butter. Great advice great delivery and easy on the eyes... Mmm. But... I would feel super judged if I was on a date with him. Lol!
Tendai J Govora (20 days ago)
Thanks my life will be better thank you Matthew
Victoria Queen (21 days ago)
If a guy wants a serious relationship , he will never ask you to come over on the first date.
Proma (22 days ago)
Forget about the concept I'm here to listen to him talk
Proma (22 days ago)
The way he talks 🔥
D ELMI (22 days ago)
I love the way you speak.
Jo Ly (22 days ago)
Reesha Re (22 days ago)
You are very handsome Mathew
Ohhh my goooddddd..... I fall in love with u...the way u talk that just killed me...😍😍😍😘😘
nickelloh ferguson (23 days ago)
Here’s my situation. I met a guy, we’re from two different country. We’ve been talking roughly a little over a month on the phone and he’s finally coming to meet me in my country. He’ll be staying for three nights because he has to get back to work. My problem is, we will be staying at a resort together because I live with my family and I’m not ready to have him staying at my home like that, so we will stay at the resort together. Like am I doing the right thing?.. I mean we’ll be in the same room for three nights; possibly sex and all that.. do I seem cheap for allowing this, considering this will be our first date and also spending three nights together. We haven’t even pursued a relationship because I think it’s best to really see how I feel upon meeting him, even though we do discuss relationships and all that and that’s the aim potentially. Help!!! 😩😩😩.. he will be here in two weeks. Plus he’s a way older guy, which is ok for me.
Nikita Barua (23 days ago)
Mr.Mathew ....I love you
l Esposito (23 days ago)
I communicate my standards because I know I'll be miserable later and unable to hide it and he will just be pissed later. I've told guys bluntly I'm not a "go home on first date girl" in a polite way when they asked and the sleazebags were angry. The good guys were patient and waited for me to comfortable. The latter were the ones I felt safest and happiest with. I agree with Matt that you should say "let's wait" in the right way. And if the guy insists or insults you....like "you're just trying go make rules for yourself" which happened to me. Tell him sorry not sorry!
Nilanjana Rai (23 days ago)
We live in the world of manipulation. ..i feel lost
cassandra lilianna (24 days ago)
Straight to the point-> Guys who ask to go home with them only on a first date? Only wants what inside your pants.
Reshma Ajay (25 days ago)
It's good to hear u. It helpful. 👍
Ves (25 days ago)
I think most of Matthew's advice comes down to a woman's self-respect and self-esteem. if you didn't have a great role model growing up, how would you even know where to start from? I see so many good women, kind women, loving women let men treat them like they are worthless only because they themselves don't believe they are good enough to be happy. It's rather sad. It is definitely not easy being a woman in today's society. Still, it's much better than living in the 1800s...
puja jha (25 days ago)
I need personal coaching...
Flavia Finnegan (25 days ago)
I have been teaching my girlfriends this 'bliss point' to my friends ! I have always found it very natural for me to do....l am always surprised at how difficult women find it to do 😳
Commenter339 (26 days ago)
Oh wow, I just realised, I think the bliss point applies to men, too... I have a guy friend whom I don't see too often, we've known each other for like 7 years and we see each other maybe like a few times a year. He's charming, got a great sense of humour, genteman-y, empathetic, many common interests for us, and he's super friendly and NICE. I was never very attracted to him romantically. Then one time when we met up, and he was kind of cranky, hadn't slept well last night, was kind of aggressive. And that time, something in me clicked, something about the way he wasn't so easily pleased, that he was a little bit demanding, a little bit aggressive, but still the same nice, sweet, empathetic guy. That's when I thought, uh-oh, I might be in trouble. He was dating someone else at the time, I think they were already engaged. Then there was a long pause in our communication for about a year. Any sparks went away pretty fast. Then we met up again, and I found out he was getting married literally in two days! And he hadn't told me! Lol. But he had turned into the nice guy that I loved spending time with again. And now he's happily married. Point is, the friend zone isn't necessarily a thing. You just have to change your behaviour, add a little salt to the mixture, surprise her.. She might even start seeing you differently.
Jen Angeli (26 days ago)
Thank you for the bliss point analogy. Brilliant. Aloha.
Ramata (28 days ago)
Bliss point is good
Yaqut tahir Farah (30 days ago)
You are great
Alexandra Pereles (1 month ago)
Thanks for everything.
rebecca hooper (1 month ago)
It is true though women have evolved and we do not have to say yes to some guy we have never met.
rebecca hooper (1 month ago)
I thought dating was easy not after listening to you Matthew lol
AmieAmie (1 month ago)
Love this concept. Don't know if these words exactly, would be natural for me to say, but the concept is amazing. Very helpful. And love the 3 part "rule".
AWLM8228 (1 month ago)
What if it wasn't your standards, but you were passive and got caught up in a situation that is not the norm for my character....How do you reverse things to let him know you're true standards and give him that even taste of salty and sweet.....
AWLM8228 (1 month ago)
Email me at [email protected]
Sweetie Bellie (1 month ago)
If any fuckboy wants to ask me to his place after the first date....actually they did....one made an excuse of letting the dog out to pee, the other made an excuse of wanting me to sober up and promise not to do anything....etc. etc. what I did? I lured them into their car, I turned them on right then and there, got them fully naked, and ran to my car and locked the door and texted them and cursed the shit out of them and block their ass forever. Any guy that disrespect a woman like that it’s on them. We don’t need to be nice and sweet and telling them our standards in a respectable way...bullshit and offer them another date. Hell no! Matt your advice is bullshit! And guess what? Those bastards even though I did that to them...they called me w blocked # and left vmails and apologize and beg for another date and promised to behave. Some even showered me with gifts and wired $ to my vemo account. Pathetic!
Chalise Kunz (1 month ago)
These are great points I was wondering if these same points will work on women it seems like everyone would like sweet and salty right?
Sneha Kumari (1 month ago)
Dhnyawad . And u are very handsome . Aur mei aapke jesa sweet and dashing bnna chahti hoo. I dont know that would u read it or not but u are amazing
Etsy Theenchantedattic (1 month ago)
You can tell a guy your standards but that’s not enough you have to act on them . That needs to be said !
Susan Fuentes (1 month ago)
How I wish your videos had Spanish subtitles to share them with some friends who need to hear you and could understand this kind of issues immediately!! 🙌
lil benz (1 month ago)
Umm you know I am a dude
Kimberly La Leona (1 month ago)
Goes to show men all say the same shit. They look different but have the same behaviors. It's such a turn off.
Ashlie Jeter (1 month ago)
Geez...I’ve been listening to videos on this subject and I guess it’s all up to the woman to make a relationship work? I’m just going to adopt a dog. It doesn’t have to be this complicated.
Frida Kanini (1 month ago)
U so genius
Panda cooky (1 month ago)
Would teasing a guy be a good thing or a bad thing?
Noel Gallagher (1 month ago)
Well, i have never been a fan of fluffy talks. I think it's awkward but you need to go in the flow. I've been sweet, mean and both. I am now single and ready for the one to come.
Noel Gallagher (1 month ago)
but that he is single even though he can seduce anyone, but his personality is crap
Give us a number of tips about how to make a man feel like a man around us. You have mentioned them separately but give the tips in one video. Thanks darling
LIL Laura (1 month ago)
When a man asks me "do you want to come to my place?" And I'm not ready I simply say " aww I want to but I'm not ready maybe we can work together on getting me there." Is that Wrong?
mokhleza parbin (1 month ago)
Heyy Matthew..... Your tips are really awesome..... Well I'll try them☺☺ I guess it works
148nini (1 month ago)
Stop worrying bout men.
vempala subashreeya (1 month ago)
if a guy propose and next day he says , lets breakup we dont have a bond and then after somedays he says i dont wanna be with u cause i wanna do something in my lyf . so tell me how should i face this situation
lisa De***** (1 month ago)
I just can't keep my mouth shut he pisses me off I tell him exactly how it is even if I do like him. and totally screw everything up. Then I come across this
czarina rematado (1 month ago)
i should have just watched this before
Devanshi Chakraborty (1 month ago)
rock angel (1 month ago)
Matt Hussey is a genius.
Brain Fucker (1 month ago)
You bastard Simp. Don't destroy your own kind.
Gunita St (1 month ago)
Oh my! Thank you ever so much! That one question "would you like to come to my place" i just detest. In the past it has made furious, angry and dissapointed. Now I see it's because I really didn't know how to answer it or what to do with it. I have played all those 3 bad examples you mentioned, and learned to only go on dates either on mornings or midday. Just to avoid hearing that question. Now you made me wiser and I can't wait to apply this knowledge. I would like to also know what you think about women drinking alcohol on dates? What guys think of that? Thank you again! :)
Jazzie Red (1 month ago)
I'd rather be alone.
Jay Walkerz (1 month ago)
I love the way your advises don't make me feel like I need to pretend but, sincerely, make the relationship better in the way it should be. Tnx
ria banerjee (1 month ago)
But!!!!! Who wldnt want to have a cup of coffee with U, Mathew, post a date?? 😄
Yvonne Humphries (1 month ago)
Hi Matthew, I just wanted to say thank you x  How refreshing to have come across your site today, having viewed advice from many disappointing sites (Rori Raye, James Bauer, Eric Charles,  Sabrina Alexis) to name a few - all who pussyfoot around the subject in question, none of whom actually GIVE advice unless you pay "x" pounds online......!  Anyway, to have found someone who is genuinely sincere and actually does provide advice with examples of "how to" is truly amazing - so THANK YOU.  I look forward to hearing / learning more from your site xxx
Pedal Power (1 month ago)
I am a great flirt and can get men very easily then when I get them and invest in them they lose interest
Sasha Stacey Chizanga (1 month ago)
I just cann't believe I'm one of the 6,942,838 women/girls who viewed this.
Cielo Morris (1 month ago)
omg I can't with your high level of pshycology of the men brain when Dating!!!! my face all the time was like: 😀😮😀😮😀😮😀😀😀....😂 Im serious
Dyl Wang (1 month ago)
this won't help you, just be yourself.
Pooja Prabhu (1 month ago)
But how long will a script work for a happy relationship? Don;t get me wrong, some of the pointers are good and observant. But it finally boils down to who you really are as a person. One person being a pacifier for the other often results in the latter taking her or him for granted.
sarah coz (1 month ago)
This happened to me I was the sweet girl who couldn't say no to him
Irina Whiting (1 month ago)
Lol this isn't a video I would ever watch.
Jochobeth Naris (1 month ago)
or you can just say.....not yet darling
Melissa Moss (1 month ago)
I just watch coz he's hot 🤣
Jennifer Xing (1 month ago)
I know this is absolutely crazy and weird to ask but. I actually met this cool dude. We've slept together like a one night stand. I asked him out to dinner and he said he is thrilled to see me again. BUT BUT BUT I want an open relationship but I also want to get to know him more. SO I'm kinda in a weird limbo. I want him to like me but not treat me like a booty call. But then I don't want a relationship because I'm moving out of the country soon. Sooooo what do I do?
Racheal Williams (1 month ago)
I think you need to decide on what you want. You've expressed a lot of differing desires all of which cannot be met at the same time. You want to know him better but you're moving soon, is he someone that is worth getting to know and then putting in the extra effort to keep the relationship whether as friends or more when you move? And are you willing to possibly put your decision to move in a weird limbo as well? I think your best bet is to ask yourself where are your boundaries, will you compromise the move if this guy seems worth it? Are you ok with long distance friendships or romantic relationships? How open is your idea of open relationships? And how do you enjoy time with him without feeling like a booty call. Once you have those answers talk to him openly and honestly and if you guys can come to arangement that works for both of you physically and emotionally then go for it and if not forget him he wasn't worth it.
Achhantei Purkayastha (1 month ago)
4:30 uhm, did he just liken women to food? how is that different from objectification? "food companies are looking for the optimal ratio of salt and sweet" - wow. How is that different from navigating the age-old tricky course between being a venus and/or a medusa, madonna and/or the whore, the pressure to be a _____ in the kitchen but a _____ in the bedroom, whereas in real life, women are all sorts of people and all colours are to be found in a woman and she has a right if she needs to be, to be assertive or passive, as she so pleases - not to impress or snag a man who for whom it is always required to be shown "standards' in order to respect a woman. How about some standards for the men eh? This is all very entertaining and probably works on a superficial level for some time, but employing such a reaction based approach to relationships still makes you weaker (as we're talking of power) while you're working hard as hell to prove yourself or "your standards" to the man, no?
Beulah Alexander (1 month ago)
Ur speech inspires me a lot! ☺
Angelique Demont (1 month ago)
wow, that was super helpful
Pratichi Saxena (1 month ago)
I watch these videos to put me to sleep.
shirley paez (1 month ago)
but if a really like the guy what is the problem if i wanna go home with him?
Racheal Williams (1 month ago)
There isn't a problem with it if that's your boundary, this video is just going over how to set boundaries in a way that makes you more desirable. A lot of people don't know how to say no in a way that that doesn't make them feel like they are shutting the door on something forever.
Anju Bala (1 month ago)
first of all, no men would ask me out on a date lol😂😂😂
Arianna Garcia (1 month ago)
😲 u have the exact same watch as my dad 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

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