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He’s Stringing You Along? Text Him This Now... (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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moms spaghetti (1 day ago)
if it was for real, this is the most retarded conversation I've ever seen. she might be the loneliest lady in the world
That Girl (1 day ago)
I love you.
anthony ward (1 day ago)
my girlfriend and i were the opposite, i was the one putting in all the effort and she was the one not trying. Then she broke up with me saying we never talked and she didnt feel close to me. Im not saying i didnt make mistakes too but both sides do have to show an interest and invest effort for any relationship.
Noemie Dumas (1 day ago)
Hhahh you are hilarious
The Plot Ninja (2 days ago)
Wish me luck, just used this advice. I'm thinking I'll get a different result though.... think he's going to stop texting. But meh, ain't nobody got time for this crap
Cherise Horton (2 days ago)
This was extremely interesting.
Len's Flares (4 days ago)
My fellow humans: If you want to hear those three little words from a love interest, then take heed of these three little words. STOP PLAYING GAMES
thenewKG (4 days ago)
PMSL why he’s gone dot com srsly
Isadora Fonseca (5 days ago)
I could listen to you saying ahaha All day lmao
wait what lol (6 days ago)
I might use the “it’s all good, have a good day :)” but if he replies with “you too” and ends the conversation, ima cry😤😤💀
Ino Uchiha (7 days ago)
He told his friend that he talked to me too much in the last few days and he did he went from not talking for weeks to texting for like 4 days and now he has gone away and I know he will come back again and it’s killing me
Positively Paris (7 days ago)
I love your advice ❗️
Katy Saccomanno (8 days ago)
You’re a magician
Karen Z (8 days ago)
I am currently dealing with a guy who is also texting in grandpa speed. Awesome timing. Lol
Piefruit o.O (9 days ago)
jesus, man, help your mates, make some guides for men, we're the ones struggling here... love your vids btw
Laughed out loud to the opening of this video 😂😂
arteisia calvin (13 days ago)
This helped me so much even with family and friendships. I always carry the weight and care too much
Lorraine Smith. (13 days ago)
Narcissists hate women...and only date "money supply"....Know this!!!
Sarah Jane Smith (14 days ago)
The intro was actually pretty cool 😁
SheaunnaGuary (15 days ago)
😂 I love the humor 😂💋
NOVASCOTIALI7 Furlong (15 days ago)
I met a man online 10 years ago and he bought me a ticket from the states to London by giving me his credit card and told me to come visit. 2 years after we first met. I did and 8 years later he will contact my daughter on social media to “check” on me yet can’t commit. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Intesh William (19 days ago)
Persephone (19 days ago)
I just want a decent guy :( I'm so tired of this shit
leah salvatore (20 days ago)
Haaahhahahahahaahah the grandpa emoji
The Redd Group Inc (21 days ago)
Leave me be.
Meah (22 days ago)
Yayks! She's rushing all the way to a crash!
Angel Alexis (23 days ago)
Matt! Im literally trying this technique right now, and this is the most effort i've gotten from this man in the whole month i've been talking to him (on and off)
dor (23 days ago)
well here is the blatant hard truth, if something like that happens to you, 100% you arent hot enough.
Isabella Anderson (24 days ago)
so much wiser than my irrational brain
Michelle Park (24 days ago)
Great video!
Janet Neri (24 days ago)
Salla Karimies (24 days ago)
One thing I want to say to all these people who keep complaining about game playings: what are you doing here? Nobody is forcing you to spend your time here. The truth is that big part of men are some sort of players, you like it or not. These videos are for women, who are interested of/fallen in love with this kind of guy and wants to win him to herself. I think Matthew's advices can be just great for her. If you dont care, forget Matthew Hussay and all players and find the nice guy you like and with whom you need no playing techniques. And let those women use Matthew's help who want. :)
TEMI LADE (25 days ago)
That grandpa 👴 got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Livika Chophi (26 days ago)
hahahahaha immediately subscribed after the grandpa emoji. lmao.
Jaws Dan (26 days ago)
”Its dangerously close to a one time deal”?? Nah thats when I would lose interest
Rida Faisal (27 days ago)
OMG OMG he is sooo rational
hipnhappenin (27 days ago)
I think he should do more of these example text messages. This was amazing
Stacey Smith (27 days ago)
Matrhew I just wanted to say thank you for all of your advice. I’m in my late 40’s, divorced and now dating again. And what I find is most of this is just plain common sense that we ignore when we’re desperately trying to get “the guy”, especially when were younger and not experienced. Now that I’m older, some of this advice comes naturally because I just genuinely don’t care enough to invest in someone who isn’t investing in me. Simply put, in over it. I know my worth and am not willing to hand it over so easily (now). But what has me thrown off a little bit are text messages, because of course dating is different now because of technology. So I came to you to understand how to put a stop to the texts that’s designed to string me along. I recognized that’s what was happening, but didn’t know it was a “thing “. So, I had already sent a guy a text similar to what your advised, but I think he was taken aback because I haven’t heard back from them yet. But the one difference is - I now know is: if I don’t hear from him I’m the better for it. If he can’t come off the fence, then that’s his hang up (pun intended) not mine. So, keep the advice coming we truly appreciate it!
Kimberly Henry (27 days ago)
@Matthew Hussey take my phone
Lauren Genson (27 days ago)
U wanna know what he said2:37...BTFOL
Mai S. (28 days ago)
“respond to your reality, not to his reasons “ wow.. that’s what i exactly need to hear right now.. thank u Matt 😘
Susana Ortega (29 days ago)
Who cares lol about men, I don't even have the time to tex but I do find the time to watch this guy videos, I love how he talks
Bebe C (29 days ago)
I love this video, Matt. You are helping so many women on here, myself included. Lol! Keep up the great work! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
えまたん (29 days ago)
I now see why I was asked to go out so much by someone who I wasn't interested in. I though I was being polite but also showing no interest.
schwarzengel (1 month ago)
I would definitely hand my phone to you then sit back and watch the miracle happening lol😂😂😂
Chris Beaty (1 month ago)
Ok u held her hand through the txtin part of it lol but what's gonna happen when she is being herself when she's out with him hes gonna be in her draws so fast..she obviously is so into the dude shes willing to make a fool of herself so u just sent a sheep out with a wolf.!!!
s khan (1 month ago)
So I just recen6got ghosted by a guy I was seeing casually. It's also a little more complicated because I'm 10 years older than him. We started out great.. and met once.. he seemed like a nice person.. the thing with us was, it was a known fact that we would part ways in the future cuz age gap this big in our society is not acceptable. He used to greet me with good morning messages, lots of loves and kisses and singing voice messages and he told he would be delighted even if I contacted him during his work hours. He runs his own business. Now the problem started the night of the first date. We kissed loved it, and wouldn't stop messaging me. But then all of a sudden everything stopped. At times we would talk simultaneously on isnta and on WhatsApp, it was funny and adorable. But he just stopped every form of communication. I waited 4 days for him to reach out to me cuz it was disturbing me on a much greater level, I suffer from anxiety and avoidance plays with my mind. I had told him early on to tell me whenever he wanted to end it and I would too, so that afterwards we could be cordial as we both run in the same industry and no way we won't ever cross paths. But he vanished just like that. On the 4th day, it was his bday. I didn't wish wish and instead called him out very politely. He said he knows he hurt me but he didn't do it on purpose and that he disb intend for it, that he was fucked up from travelling all the time and he would make me feel better.. I told him all he had to do was let me know that he won't be available, just one text and he said he didn't want to to one text, he was busy and didn't want to do any less but he was in no mood to talk and first said he was with family and still working but then suddenly said he was sleepy and we will continue in the morning. Which we never did. I had not wished him the precious night so I didn't want to look silly and sent him a very nice sweet birthday wish over WhatsApp voice message. Which he saw donno if he heard but i got no thank u. I thought that was it for us.. felt worth less and I needed closure so I sent him two more voice messages telling i was saying goodbye cuz he wouldn't and explained what he did and bad it hurt. Now he didn't even hear them. That morning at 4. I remembered we had exchanged sexual convos and I needed him to delete his part from insta and WhatsApp. He came online for 2 mins but just as I sent the message he went offline. That made me soooooo mad that I called him up. He picked the second call. I told him clearly that he could have just told me that he wasn't interested anymore but he said he was. He had excuses of work load and nothing else and asked for space said he didn tell me cuz he thought I would not understand. He said he didn't listen to my messages, he doesn't even open my threads cuz he feels like he has a lot of explaining to do for his behavior and that he us sorry. He wanted to meet I wasn't sure so I didn't say anything. Told him he can have all the space in the world but the he went no no no. He listened to my messages or I donno but he contacted me 2 days later at night asking how i was. I was formal he sent a heart and monkey emoji I didn't reciprocate didn't feel like it. He comes online and stays online longer is active on insta WhatsApp Facebook even Snapchat. He watches all my Instastories but says nothing. He asked to meet me but I told him I was busy which was true this week and we could meet next week. But he took it as a taunt. I cleared it to him that it was the case. Then again radio silence. Two days after that cuz my schedule cleared up I asked him if meeting in a public setting would work? To this he replied with ' I was just watching your insta stiry and that u will live long'. I felt stupid asking him that so I deleted the messages and he replied with are u crazy why did u delete the messages. I clearly told cuz I looked stupid to mysel. And then sent him this ""I'm just a little confused cuz u asked for space for whatever reason although I respect that and understand and gave it to u but it confuses me more that u ask to meet me but when I ask u don't respond. It would be confusing to anyone so in turn I donno if I should ask. Do u get what I'm trying to say? Can u please clear this out for me Zeeshan? Cuz I got the impression that u were a genuine guy. Any ways.. no pressure.. just get back to me on this when u are ok to." He replied with he will in the morning but wasn't yet. it's been two days since.. This morning when I woke up he had liked my picture on insta on my other account. And then nothing. I also think he probably just wanted to sleep with me but he knew I wouldn't give it up easily or soon. But what I don't understand is why he did this when he could have just told me and that is all I wanted. Help.
s khan (1 month ago)
I am really disturbed.. so last night I unfollowed his company's insta account which he runs and today blocked him from just seeing my insta stories, haven't blocked him completely. He is living his life doing everything he did before but for me he says he cant send me 10 messages dialy like he did before. I dono what is going on. How do I get him to tell me the real reason? Xuz I need an answer badly.
Kh.Julie Chanu (1 month ago)
Wow! Sooo valuable advice😍
SeguralooVe (1 month ago)
Moonatic Black (1 month ago)
I need you behind my phone hahaha!
Mgtow Boo Boo (1 month ago)
women don't care about men
Xavius Americus (1 month ago)
I have seen even the ugliest woman walk around with a husband. It can’t be that hard ladies. You each have a vagina. At least you’re not a tranny. You’re a real woman.
Regan wolf (1 month ago)
this is the why i just like calling people because texting cost to much playing en shit. press next ciao
swedish girl (1 month ago)
I get so pissed when a guy sends ONE text and leaves the conversation hanging for hours or days. With this one guy I recently met, I got annoyed and said nicely, "Your habit of texting me and tossing your phone into the sun is duly noted." Then I said I didn't have much success with platonic relationships anyway and it was his chance to escape. He texted back almost immediately and came up with several excuses including "I'm slow at texting." I never replied.
elena Khan (1 month ago)
This video always gets me! 😂
Marissa (1 month ago)
alliah catamisan (1 month ago)
Angel M (1 month ago)
Haha.. ‘tis guy is much easy to get dumped lol
Filippo Vaccari (1 month ago)
2:37 I was expecting a dick pic😂
Deep Kaur (1 month ago)
but ,one think that I have in mind is that what if he knows about your videos 😜
Shannon Kimball (1 month ago)
This is so true!!!! I hate having to analyze, however in the beginning of dating someone, as well as an acronym I just learned- ‘dtr’ (determining the relationship) stage, I have learned to just be positive and take care of myself. If they are interested, they will reach out especially when you are not hung up on what a text says or means.
Briana S (1 month ago)
Matthew, be my friend and take my phone. I need you. 😂
agizzy23 (1 month ago)
The opening made me crack up. Well done
s m (1 month ago)
The Little Wanderer (1 month ago)
This is actually hilarious. Great advice, I'm enjoying your videos!
Tatyana Ellis (1 month ago)
It was really good explanation. Thank ypu
Kevinanita Johnson (1 month ago)
Omg this is amazing...
khushee sunda (1 month ago)
Shit. I'm that girl 😐
iamsupertac (1 month ago)
Perfect timing for me to find this video. Two takeaways that hit home: He has his reasons. I have my reality. My new favorite text reply: “It’s all good. :-) Have a great week!”
Alejandra Gonzalez (1 month ago)
I wish I could just hand my phone over to Matthew when I need help lol
Inigo Diaz (1 month ago)
I thought this was a comedy sketch... It wasn't... A surprise, but a welcome one.
/ Jojo / (1 month ago)
Everyone needs a Matthew Hussey in their lifes. I´m just starting to hate this texting-game, because you can really get crazy trying to read into things. I know you should not do this too much, but I am very empathetic and a guy sending mixed signals all the time really confuses me.:D In a face to face conversation it´s way easier to read between the lines. And it´s waaay more fun if the chemistry is there.
evakorte (1 month ago)
Hahaha i LOVE the tower of terror reference xD how come no one has mentioned this?
Bella D (1 month ago)
Ok everyone I needs some advice this guy i have been seeing for a long time he gets really busy with work... He has never made me a priority.. Anyways when I do things in Matthew video he start to come around and show interested because he afraid of losing me but then goes right back to his old ways... So just the other day I said we should do a movie next in the next few weeks when ur not so busy at work. He waited for a WEEK to text me back and said "I'll let u know when I'm free". I didn't say anything left him on read for a few hrs. And text him back and said this " It's ok we don't have to hangout. He hasn't seen it yet. Was that the best way to respond to him? Or should I have said nothing at all. Love to hear from u all good or bad.. I need to know where I should go from here, so be brutal honest
Nosipho Zondi (1 month ago)
Me and that guy can kill each other 😆
Kerry Woods (1 month ago)
Men are good at excuses .. but they think you're ok with it. Don't challenge him, act calm and warm, great advice Mr Hussey
Cathy Bair (1 month ago)
I really enjoy your videos but it's frustrating when you send us to a Web page to learn more. I know I Owned this message. .lol
Ilia Harkins (1 month ago)
Hilarious! (But true...)
Libera (1 month ago)
My Girl friends are like that guy, I wonder if they are like that with men too...XD
Renee Mead (1 month ago)
What about a video guide on why she's gone?
Taylor D (1 month ago)
If I saw that grandpa emoji I would've laughed and blocked his petty ass lmao
Rachel Jones (1 month ago)
"respond to your reality, not his reasons" so wise! I need this guy to be my friend.
barbara pirih (1 month ago)
yay, I m taking some serious notes, bravo , you are nailing it :)
Rodney Hill (1 month ago)
I really liked a girl very much and I genuinely wanted to get closer with her But I said something similar to something in this video and she referenced your channel and for that I hate you But other than that I like this channel it’s interesting to see
Lady Jane (2 months ago)
Matthew is Aussie Magic for Relationship advice.
Camille DG (2 months ago)
As other people share stories in the comments, here's mine: I met a guy on the internet a few months ago and we've been talking to each other for a while, I like him. The feeling is (was?) mutual, and we very quickly became closer through text messages although we had not seen each other yet. We did, after a few weeks (for the story, he wanted me to come to him -long distance relationship- but that wasn't an option for me, he told me he would think about it and then came back to me later on saying he'll come, because his friend adviced him to... lol). We meet once, twice, a third time and although we were nice and polite, we weren't as close as we used to be by texts, more like friends than possible relationship material. We've been talking ever since but less and less, I feel like he's not invested into this thing we have, as an example, if I don't reach out to him, he won't (or very rarely) text me at all + we haven't talked in days (he's abroad for vacations, but still, a little "hey how are you?" wouldn't hurt once in a while). I talked to him about it, very briefly, and he told me he just wasn't this kind of person, not the one to talk about feelings. I can understand that but I don't know where we stand, I don't know whether he cares or not and I'm annoyed by it. I know I should talk to him about it and try to figure it out but I don't know how. Friends in the comment section, advice me.
ac kinni (1 month ago)
Camille de Guerry de Beauregard I’ve heard if someone really likes you they will talk to you. Theyll find a way to make time for you. Always. Are you the one that’s always reaching out? I would say however much he gives you eg: one text message a day. Is what you should give him. Match his input. You deserve someone who will make time for you and if he isn’t doing that then quite frankly you deserve better. Best wishes :)
Meghan Blanchard (2 months ago)
Why do guys do that text one min or not all or reply days later?
Matt Jones (2 months ago)
Great another cuck who's a so called pick up artist who's on the side of Women, this guy knows Women can text the exact same stuff there's no magical recipe for relationships stop treating pick up artist's like they're a fairy Fucking God Mother that says you can do these basically magical spells that gives the other person some warm fuzzy feeling, this guy is full of shit
Wendy P (2 months ago)
Thank for parsing out the meanings behind the texts. "Respond to your reality" <--- I love it. Am subscribing now ⭐️
julial1197 (2 months ago)
Your reasons, my reality - the best bit!
Chandreyee Dasgupta (2 months ago)
I really need to hand over my phone to u guys like this are frustrating me out of my mind
TheDrewtheory (2 months ago)
This is amazing!! 😍😍😍
Jay Hova (2 months ago)
WHATEVER like women aren’t the progenitors of stringing along?
Poppins 321 (2 months ago)
He’s quite good at advice but I think her messsge should have played harder to get like ‘can’t do tomorrow but can do next Tuesday’ as he had already messed her about!
Lori Wolfcat (2 months ago)
Dramatic music- “So, I said, give me the phone. She gave me the phone, I wrote out a message, and hit send. And it was a Very different message than the one she would have sent . . . All good! Have a great week.” 😹😹 It caught me off guard! That was so hilarious!
Hameeda Ahmed (2 months ago)
I need to speak to u directly
When i saw the grandpa-emoji it teared me apart😂😂😂😂
princess Lucrecia (2 months ago)
Point taken...going through this at the moment
diamondgirl33 (2 months ago)
The minute a guy didn't text back quick and act interested and consistent...get real...and ditch him. No text, no nothing. Matthew's a great teacher, but a smart woman would not waste her time on the texting idiot for two seconds. When it starts out this lukewarm, its no dice. Ever.
Rachael McNicol (2 months ago)
Love all these example videos

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